Ever notice how some people always get the best table, the upgraded room, or the best cut of meat at the market? Great customer service is not an accident. Those who are served well follow a recipe that turns even a cold initial encounter into a warm one. Here are five tips for almost always getting really great customer service.

 

  1. Check Your Pessimism at the Door

 

Enter the service scene with the expectation that greatness is about to happen and that it should happen to you. Visualize being served well. Then, let your obvious positive attitude come from your terrific mental picture. Avoid making demands. Put your energy into creating early lighthearted vibes.

 

  1. Manage the First Ten Seconds

 

The first ten seconds are vital to shaping the reception you are likely to get. Aim your eyes and best smile straight at the service provider. Deliver a greeting that loudly proclaims, “We are about to have some unbelievable festivity here. And you’re invited!” Be confident, but not pushy. Assume you just encountered a future friend.

 

  1. Help the Service Provider Give You Greatness

 

Most service people want to give good service. Sometimes, barriers make it difficult.  Be a willing helper in clearing barriers away. If the barrier is a foul mood, try a sincere compliment to turn sour into sunny. If the barrier is an absurd policy, offer a suggestion that helps you get what you want without getting the service person in trouble.

 

  1. Always Lace Your Encounters with Respect

 

No matter how determined a service provider seems to provide the bare minimum, treat the server with the utmost respect. Sometimes “no” is an unshakable “no!” Your best manners—“please,” “sirs,” and “thank yous”–can work wonders. That chilly initial reception will generally thaw if you continue being warm and cheerful.

 

  1. Be Generous and Thoughtful

 

Never view a service encounter as a single transaction but rather the start of an important relationship. Praise service people to their superiors. Express your compliments to great service providers with a follow-up call. The next time you return, you’ll likely get their red-carpet best!

 

Don’t wait for great service to come to you. Take charge of elevating the encounter from a “pretty good” transaction to an “I wouldn’t go anywhere else” relationship.